Thursday, December 22, 2011

Romance your man!


Romance does not have to be all flowers and expensive dinners, but about showing each other how much you care and spending quality time together.

Romance is important as it keeps couples connected and shows your partner that you are thinking about them. Making you a cup of tea in the morning, buying you your favourite chocolate bar, or putting your washing away may seem like mundane actions but they all show that he cares and wants to do nice things for you.

Lead by example and take the responsibility for a putting a bit of romance back into your relationship. Cook him a nice meal, run yourselves a candlelit bath or give him a backrub after a long day at work.
The main thing is that men want to lead – so, lead him!

Men aren't mind readers - much as we'd like them to be - so you need to tell them what you want. Do not make it confrontational but open up the conversation by asking what you could do to make him feel more wanted/loved/appreciated.

The best way to get someone to change his or her behaviour is by setting an example of what you would like done. Do something romantic for him - that he would like not just, what you want - and he will be more inspired to reciprocate.

Everyone likes to be complimented so make sure your man knows how pleased you are when he makes romantic gesture.


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