The role of the shoulder in your sensuality

The shoulder is an underrated body part that can easily create an innocent look for a woman regardless of her face, breasts, etc. It's a sensual diversion from the classic points of beauty.

 

Dancing by far emphasizes the sensual power of a shoulder roll. In ballroom dancing competitions, many costumes are designed to expose the shoulder and stay that way as the woman dances. Clothing designers recognize that showing off this part of the body exposes the softness and delicate muscles between the neck and shoulder, creating a sultry yet innocent look.

 

In salsa dancing, many women use shoulder rolls as their seductive gesture to entice their partner. There's this courting game that goings on between a man and a woman and every shine step (the moment where the man let's go of the woman's embrace and they are both solo) is a seductive ritual. He shimmies, she rolls...he stomps, she wiggles...its constant non-verbal cues to allure each other.

Here are tips to incorporate the sensuality of the shoulder into everyday life.

 

1) When having a conversation, be sure you are standing or sitting at an angle. When you look at your partner make sure your chin is just above your shoulder. Every so often, push your shoulder forward slightly and stretch your neck back. This gives your man a double-whammy of the shoulder press and neck exposure.

 

2) Pretend you have an itch and gently rub the shoulder with the palm of your hand. Be sure to mainly use the middle finger when you rub. Let him see your hand and notice the way your hand rolls over your shoulder.

 

3) Allow dress straps or wide-neck sweaters to slip off one of your shoulder so that you can spend the evening pulling it back up...that constant adjustment can be mesmerizing!

 

4) Be aware of your shoulder while sitting. When I need to speak to someone sitting next to me, I don't turn around completely to face him, I turn halfway and allow my head to turn the rest of the way to create a better angle. For extra punch, push your shoulder slightly forward toward your chin and smile. This creates an innocent look.

 

5) A sexy shoulder shrug is a great way to show your interest in a man. It's a small, quick movement, yet creates a big impact.

 

These tips are simple, yet effective 

Danie