What do men want?

What are men looking for in a relationship with a woman?

I mean the average man. The man you will fall for – fall in love with him.

In my opion and according to my own experience, this is what a man want. Really want!

Men want someone they can be crazy, madly, deeply in love with— and they want someone who feels the same way about them. 

Men do not want to be alone. For this matter, nobody wants to be alone. We were created to be with someone.  Men want to be part of a home and family and they want to belong somewhere.  Women are much better at making a home for themselves than men are.  When a man has a broken heart, he goes to another woman.  When a woman has one, she usually goes to her girlfriends.

Generally, men want to be with someone who is physically appealing, but what they really want is someone who takes care of herself, has some pride in her appearance, shows some style and taste in her clothes, makeup, and hair, and spends a little time making herself look as good as she can.  What he doesn’t want is someone who is so self-absorbed in herself, obsessed on her looks, and shallow in her outlook, she has no time or depth to notice him.

Men do not want to be with someone who is angry, yelling, and acting out.  They do not want a woman with a cold, edgy, or negative attitude.  They want to be with someone who is not a doormat, but who chooses to see more of the good in them than the bad.

Men love feminine women.  They love women who smell good, wear soft textures and who are truly woman!

Men are also sentimental creatures, just like us.  They desperately want to trust the person they give their heart to. 

Women who have charm, wit, and a deeply developed sense of humor are irresistible. Being with a woman that they can share laughter with makes men feel fearless.

Lastly, men want physical intinacy – but deeper than that – they want someone with a healthy, happy attitude about sex.  Combine that with the above and what do you have?  Men in love.  What men really want—is to be in love.

Jenny