5 Sure-fire Ways to Arouse Your Woman

As there are different types of women, there are different ways to arouse them as well. If you have been in a bit of a slump here are some quick ways to rev up your love life:

1) Dress in a suit and take her out to a romantic dinner. Women love men in suits and almost every man looks good in one. The soft candle light of a romantic restaurant combined with a good wine will put her in the mood to get closer, as well.

2) Work out together. Workouts release pheromones that heighten attraction between couples. Get sweaty together then clean up with some dirty fun in the shower.

3) Take a bath together. Fill the tub with some scented oils or bath salts and toss in some rose petals. Play romantic music and light some candles. She will feel pampered and grateful. Let her relax for a few minutes then slip in with her. There is plenty of opportunity for sexy contact while you clean each other.

4) Role-play can keep your relationship and sex life revved up for years.

My boyfriend will dress up like a handyman and really get into the act with accent and tools. He comes over and offers to lend a helping hand around the house. He offers a truly helping hand and I tip him extremely well.

5) Practice erotic massage. Either take a class together or get a video or book and practice on each other. This is a great way to get both of you relaxed and heated up.

By Caterina Christakos

Relax the Sensual Way with a Hot Bath for Two

My dream bathroom is a far cry from what we have at our house now. We have a tiny bathtub that refuses to hold water. I am planning my dream home and the bathroom includes the largest, soaking whirlpool tub that we could possibly purchase!

I would love to drop our boys off with grandma and grandpa while my husband is at home preparing the bath. I would tell him not to light too many candles. Two or three is enough to keep the tub romantically lit.

Soaking in Warm Water with Jets

Warm water with lots of jets is key to soothing your tired aching muscles and bubbles are essential. Not only can bubbles lightly scent your bath they give you something to play with, other than each other!

Have a Bath Pillow

A bath pillow will help cushion your head as you relax with one another. Nothing is more uncomfortable than resting your head on the hard surface of your tub. If you don’t have a pillow then resting in the arms of your lover works well too!

Love and Drinks

At our home we don’t drink wine but I love sparkling grape juice. I would make sure my lover had a bottle and two glasses sitting next to the tub. It would be slightly chilled but not too cold to offset the warmth of the water. Make sure you have some sweets on hand, such as a good box of chocolates, or some strawberries just in case you get hungry and don’t want to leave the tub.

Coming Home to a Hot Bath

Coming home I would slip out of my clothes and slip into the tub. When my lover joins me I would treat him to a massage because my bath would be perfect.

by Lisa Hayes

Lingerie, A Powerful Turn-On

Men are visually stimulated. It probably stems from the first men of our species. The more easily they were aroused, the more frequently they would have sex, and the more of their off-spring would inhabit, and propagate the planet. The men walking around today are descended from those quick-to-get-aroused men.

Most men say sexy lingerie is one of the greatest turn-ons. One thing it tells them is that the woman wearing it is interested in sex and will probably be an enthusiastic partner.

Men not only like lingerie in the bedroom, they love to see a tiny bit of lace showing beneath a conservative suit, or through a silk blouse. It's not about being sleazy. Most men will certainly look at a sleazy woman putting on a sexy show, but they generally prefer a classier, more erotic and sensual look on the women they date and marry. Actually, if you've never tried it, you might be surprised that you like it. It will make you feel more feminine, attractive, and alluring. If you don't have anything sexy, get a Victoria's Secret catalogue. 

There are a variety of tasteful but sexy things to choose from. Or if you're more daring, go into a store specializing in sexy, playful lingerie. Go with a girlfriend and make it a fun activity.

If you're uncomfortable with wearing the things you've purchased, put them on and wear them under your clothes. No one will know you have them on but you'll get used to the idea and how it feels. Then when you reveal them to your man, you'll be able to give him the sensual and seductive experience that you intended when you made your purchase. 

Wearing sexy lingerie will make you feel sexier, more alluring, and attractive. It also helps keep you in the mood.

Jenny Love