The role of the shoulder in your sensuality

The shoulder is an underrated body part that can easily create an innocent look for a woman regardless of her face, breasts, etc. It's a sensual diversion from the classic points of beauty.

 

Dancing by far emphasizes the sensual power of a shoulder roll. In ballroom dancing competitions, many costumes are designed to expose the shoulder and stay that way as the woman dances. Clothing designers recognize that showing off this part of the body exposes the softness and delicate muscles between the neck and shoulder, creating a sultry yet innocent look.

 

In salsa dancing, many women use shoulder rolls as their seductive gesture to entice their partner. There's this courting game that goings on between a man and a woman and every shine step (the moment where the man let's go of the woman's embrace and they are both solo) is a seductive ritual. He shimmies, she rolls...he stomps, she wiggles...its constant non-verbal cues to allure each other.

Here are tips to incorporate the sensuality of the shoulder into everyday life.

 

1) When having a conversation, be sure you are standing or sitting at an angle. When you look at your partner make sure your chin is just above your shoulder. Every so often, push your shoulder forward slightly and stretch your neck back. This gives your man a double-whammy of the shoulder press and neck exposure.

 

2) Pretend you have an itch and gently rub the shoulder with the palm of your hand. Be sure to mainly use the middle finger when you rub. Let him see your hand and notice the way your hand rolls over your shoulder.

 

3) Allow dress straps or wide-neck sweaters to slip off one of your shoulder so that you can spend the evening pulling it back up...that constant adjustment can be mesmerizing!

 

4) Be aware of your shoulder while sitting. When I need to speak to someone sitting next to me, I don't turn around completely to face him, I turn halfway and allow my head to turn the rest of the way to create a better angle. For extra punch, push your shoulder slightly forward toward your chin and smile. This creates an innocent look.

 

5) A sexy shoulder shrug is a great way to show your interest in a man. It's a small, quick movement, yet creates a big impact.

 

These tips are simple, yet effective 

Danie

How to be Sensual

1. Your lips are a great asset; use it! Either suck the lips or bite the lower lip with teeth as a sensual gesture. For more sensual affect, apply Red lipstick is always a winner – it makes the lips look glossy, juicy and fuller. Sexy red lips are appealing to the eyes.

2. Your body language is a tell-tale of your comfort levels. It is important to relax and keep the body language flexible. The correct body language is a sensual gesture to show signs of physical affection.

3. Show off that beautiful cleavage in a deep V-neck top or dress. Remember, breast size does not matter! This will excite your man and bring him close to you! However, never be slutty – whatever you show, let be still feminine.

4. Play with your hair, whether it long or short hair. This is most commonly used sensual gesture to attract a man. You can simply play with the strands of your hair and get his attention. This also impresses a man and makes him fall for you. Wet hair can add more appeal to the sensual expression. This is mainly because men love wet hair of women and the water drops falling on the shoulders can drive them crazy in seconds!

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10 Ways to put passion back in the bedroom

Take a hot shower or bath together. When you are in the bath or shower, keep close physical contact. Wash each other and whisper in their ear the things you specifically love about making love to them.

Share a romantic dinner in front of the fireplace. Nothing speaks romance like sharing a meal in front of the glow of a burning fire. It's even better if you're nude or barely covered with lace and silk. Make sure the dinner you share is conducive to a romantic setting. Food that can easily be eaten with the least amount of utensils is usually your best bet!

Keep constant close physical contact when you are not at home. Keeping a sparked connection throughout the night is one of the most effective ways to keeping your partner passionate about you. A hand on their thigh, a whisper in their ear or a kiss on the neck is all great for reminding your partner what's waiting at home.

A long, passionate kiss. How often do you really just express your desire in a kiss? When you first start dating it's usually one of the only ways to express your desire. Refresh your kissing skills by every so often catching your partner off-guard with a weak-in-the-knees passionate kiss.

Leave a sexy note in the morning telling them to have nothing on, but the radio when you get home. They'll be thinking about it all day at work! Want to keep your partner's mind on you ALL day? Do this idea! You can even go a step further and tell them what's in store for them as well!

Feed each other sensually suggestive finger foods. The best way to feed each other? Naked, of course! Set the tone for an incredible lovemaking experience with a little forethought and some of their favourite tender treats.

Slow, sensual massage, complete with massage oil. If your hands slowly massaging every part of their body can't turn them on… well, you need more than these tips to jumpstart your sexual relationship! Create new sensations with the addition of props such as a feather, fur mitten or a metal chain.

Read your partner an erotic bedtime story. The best encounters are those we don't plan on. Tell your partner you'd like to read them a story. Without letting them see the book (maybe slip a book cover over it) begin to delight their ears with a sensual story made perfect for two!

Write a sexy letter describing everything you'd like to do to them. Sometimes it's difficult to actually speak out loud the things we enjoy about sex with our partner. Leave no doubts about your attraction and get them ready for some loving with a very in-depth description about what you enjoy doing to them!

Study a new sexual practice such as tantric sex or the Kama sutra together. Expand your sexual horizons and learn new ways to turn each other on. There are many, many sexual techniques you can learn or sexual practices to study. Get two books, one for each of you, on a particular subject relating to sex. Agree on a pre-determined time frame to be done with the books. On one agreed night, one partner will give a full body "report" on what they learned. On another night the other partner will do the same. Compare notes…

By Jennifer Good

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Become a sensual woman!

There is a common acceptance there that men love to look at women and women love to be admired by men. In fact, courtship is a regular topic of discussion at the dinner table.

One night, a large group of friends gathered for dinner. It was delicious! There was plenty of seafood, pasta, and wine. And conversation among the group never wavered. In fact, with each glass of wine, their topic of conversation grew more heated!

The peak of the discussion occurred when a 58-year old woman stood up and professed her beliefs on courtship:

 "The man must conquer the woman, not the other way around. A woman radiates in her features and as a result men are attracted to the sensual woman. Her sensuality is like a magnet. It allows her to CHOOSE the man SHE wants."

Wow! This woman was brave!

But, she is right. A woman's mould is distinctly different from that of a man's.

A woman naturally moves differently than a man. There is a distinct sway to her walk. There is a unique swerve to her silhouette. There is a delicate contour to her shoulder. There is a soft appearance to her neck.

As women, you should all embrace, enhance and celebrate your uniqueness.

But how can you accomplish this? Of course! With body language!

Body language allows you to speak without uttering a word. It is a language that anyone can understand and anyone can perfect.

Let’s take, for example, how you stand.

Would you like to look more advantageous and charming?

Practice these stances:

- Put your feet in the ballet third position (left heel against the instep of the right foot) while keeping the left knee bent and right leg straight.

- Settle into your right hip, which will make it stick out, so you can accentuate the curve of your waist.

- Rest your hand against your hipbone, so you can call attention to that area of your body.

- Suddenly, parts of you that was barely noticeable suddenly becomes quite appealing.

Something else to remember...wherever you are, don't just stand there!  When you stand in line at the bank or grocery store, go through your check list, keeping yourself occupied -  RADIATE!

To become a more sensual woman, you NEED to understand how body language can work to YOUR advantage.

Where do you begin?

You begin by learning how to use subtle movements and communication to make a man feel attracted to you. Because after all - He SHOULD try to conquer you, so YOU CAN CHOOSE the man YOU want.

If you haven't already done so, get started!

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