The role of the shoulder in your sensuality

The shoulder is an underrated body part that can easily create an innocent look for a woman regardless of her face, breasts, etc. It's a sensual diversion from the classic points of beauty.

 

Dancing by far emphasizes the sensual power of a shoulder roll. In ballroom dancing competitions, many costumes are designed to expose the shoulder and stay that way as the woman dances. Clothing designers recognize that showing off this part of the body exposes the softness and delicate muscles between the neck and shoulder, creating a sultry yet innocent look.

 

In salsa dancing, many women use shoulder rolls as their seductive gesture to entice their partner. There's this courting game that goings on between a man and a woman and every shine step (the moment where the man let's go of the woman's embrace and they are both solo) is a seductive ritual. He shimmies, she rolls...he stomps, she wiggles...its constant non-verbal cues to allure each other.

Here are tips to incorporate the sensuality of the shoulder into everyday life.

 

1) When having a conversation, be sure you are standing or sitting at an angle. When you look at your partner make sure your chin is just above your shoulder. Every so often, push your shoulder forward slightly and stretch your neck back. This gives your man a double-whammy of the shoulder press and neck exposure.

 

2) Pretend you have an itch and gently rub the shoulder with the palm of your hand. Be sure to mainly use the middle finger when you rub. Let him see your hand and notice the way your hand rolls over your shoulder.

 

3) Allow dress straps or wide-neck sweaters to slip off one of your shoulder so that you can spend the evening pulling it back up...that constant adjustment can be mesmerizing!

 

4) Be aware of your shoulder while sitting. When I need to speak to someone sitting next to me, I don't turn around completely to face him, I turn halfway and allow my head to turn the rest of the way to create a better angle. For extra punch, push your shoulder slightly forward toward your chin and smile. This creates an innocent look.

 

5) A sexy shoulder shrug is a great way to show your interest in a man. It's a small, quick movement, yet creates a big impact.

 

These tips are simple, yet effective 

Danie

Tips to be Sexy

We all wish to be sexy, to be desired by someone, to attract Mr. Right. However, what does it take to be sexy?

Here are a few tips:

Dress sexy: Dressing sexy does not mean being sleazy. It means being sexy and mysterious. A great example would a woman wearing a short and sassy suit. Her legs are showing wonderfully in that short suit skirt, but it leaves the mystery everywhere else. If you decide to show your legs off, try not to show too much cleavage. If you want to show your cleavage off, then remember not to show too much leg. High-heeled boots and shoes are also very sexy and seductive.

Smell sexy:  Wear a perfume that will be sure to make an unforgettable impression when you walk by the person you want to attract. People are very much in touch with their sense of smell and therefore will probably follow your trail if you smell great!

Use some hypnotic power: Use your hypnotic power to get the attention of the person you want. Your hypnotic power is located in your eyes. You can use it by giving them a mysterious look that introduces who you are, without having to speak.

Show mysterious confidence:  There is nothing sexier and seductive than a person who is confident and mysterious about it. Keep in mind to carry yourself with sureness and direction. Give a little acknowledgement that you know he exists by catching them staring at you. Then smile and continue with whatever it is you are doing. This will make you mysterious and confident in yourself. When you are a mystery and have clear direction in your life, people is sure to follow.

Remember; do not make the mistake to be sexy only when you try to get someone’s attention. Stay sexy, even after getting into a relationship. It is actually the most important time to bring out your sexy side because it will help the relationship remain hot, spicy, and interesting. So keep dressing the part, leaving your mark, talking the talk, acting the act and being yourself.

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