Showing posts with label attraction. Show all posts
Showing posts with label attraction. Show all posts

Saturday, June 2, 2012

Is She Attracted to You?



Men often wonder whether women are attracted to them, mainly because women are much more subtle than men when it comes to showing their attraction towards someone.
Here are the ways women may show that they like you:
1. When She Wants to Speak to You:

·      She will point her feet in your direction when standing up.
·      She may smile, or look away embarrassed, when holding eye contact.
·      She jerks her leg in your direction if sitting down with legs crossed.
·      She adjusts her posture - sitting up straighter and holding in her belly.
·      She faces you with her hips/legs towards you while sitting.
·      She opens up her body language to you while standing.
·      She brushes up against you unnecessarily when she passes.
·      She looks at you twice before approach.
·      She touches her hair when she notices you.
If you receive any of these gestures, definitely move in and begin conversation with her. The next aim is to move the interaction along to a point where the girl actually wants to continue pursuing a conversation with you. This may happen instantly, or it could take a while. If you have jumped straight in without any of the above signals, look for some of the below to know if she is interested.
2. If She is Interested in Extending the Interaction:
·      She asks your name.
·      She asks you other questions.
·      She responds with extended answers to your questions.
So those are the signs that she likes you enough to want to talk to you, but how can you tell if she actually wants to get physical with you?
3. If She is Sexually Attracted to You:

·      She strokes her neck when talking to you.
·      She gazes at your mouth.
·      She tilts head to the side when speaking to you.
·      Her pupils dilate.
·      She laughs at your jokes, even if they aren't funny.
·      She is happy listening to you even when you are talking nonsense.
·      She holds eye contact with you and doesn't look around the room or at her friends. (Note - if she is nervous and it is just not her character to hold strong eye contact, she could still be interested.)
·      She is doesn't mind you touching her and entering her space.
·      She is willing to leave her friends and stay with you.
·      She laughs and hits you on the shoulder when you tease her.
·      She looks at you in a dreamy way.
·      She asks if you're single.
·      She uses your name in conversation.
·      She leans in towards you.
Knowing the signs that a woman is attracted to us is very useful, as it not only tells you whether or not to make the move but also helps to avoid missing crucial opportunities.
Love,
Engela

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Is She Attracted to You?


Many guys wonder whether women are attracted to them, mainly because women are much more subtle than guys when it comes to showing their attraction towards someone. However, once you know the secrets, spotting the signs is easy. Just one of these actions is enough to act on; more than one - then go for it! Here are the ways women may show that they like you:

1. When She Wants to Speak to You:

·      She will point her feet in your direction when standing up.
·      She may smile, or look away embarrassed, when holding eye contact.
·      She jerks her leg in your direction if sitting down with legs crossed.
·      She adjusts her posture - sitting up straighter and holding in her belly.
·      She faces you with her hips/legs towards you while sitting.
·      She opens up her body language to you while standing.
·      She brushes up against you unnecessarily when she passes.
·      She looks at you twice before approach.
·      She touches her hair when she notices you.
If you receive any of these gestures, definitely move in and begin conversation with her. The next aim is to move the interaction along to a point where the girl actually wants to continue pursuing a conversation with you. This may happen instantly, or it could take a while. If you have jumped straight in without any of the above signals, look for some of the below to know if she is interested.

2. If She is Interested in Extending the Interaction:

·      She asks your name.
·      She asks you other questions.
·      She responds with extended answers to your questions.
So those are the signs that she likes you enough to want to talk to you, but how can you tell if she actually wants to get physical with you?

3. If She is Sexually Attracted to You:

·      She strokes her neck when talking to you.
·      She gazes at your mouth.
·      She tilts head to the side when speaking to you.
·      Her pupils dilate.
·      She laughs at your jokes, even if they aren't funny.
·      She is happy listening to you even when you are talking nonsense.
·      She holds eye contact with you and doesn't look around the room or at her friends. (Note - if she is nervous and it is just not her character to hold strong eye contact, she could still be interested.)
·      She is doesn't mind you touching her and entering her space.
·      She is willing to leave her friends and stay with you.
·      She laughs and hits you on the shoulder when you tease her.
·      She looks at you in a dreamy way.
·      She asks if you're single.
·      She uses your name in conversation.
·      She leans in towards you.
Knowing the signs that a girl is attracted to us is very useful, as it not only tells you whether or not to make the move but also helps to avoid missing crucial opportunities. Your success rate with women will increase significantly, just by knowing how to read them.

Sunday, September 18, 2011

Signs of Sexual Attraction From a Woman


You can't really blame them. If all it took for me to get my own way was to giggle and thrust my chest out, I don't think I'd ever stop.


But it's not much help to us men.

We've all read articles about female body language. We know how to spot if a girl is flirting with us and we've been told that means that she fancies us. Now it turns out that that isn't necessarily true.

So how do you go about recognizing which are the compulsive flirts and which girls are genuinely hot for you?

Well, I'm about to tell you.

The first thing to remember is that some body language cannot be faked. Sure, she can twirl her hair and hold your gaze, but there are certain signals which only genuinely interested girls give out.

Start by looking into her eyes. If she likes the looks of you her eyebrows will twitch momentarily upwards in greeting and her pupils will quickly dilate. Her focus will begin darting between your left and right eyes and occasionally down to your lips.

Check her skin. If her blood's pumping excitedly, her neck and chest will become slightly flushed and she may be more prone to blushing. You might also notice she's stroking her own chest, arm or face slowly and seductively - any rhythmic caressing of herself is an absolute give away that this girl is really into you.

Finally, look for mirroring. If you've both turned your shoulders and legs so you're facing each other, you know you've made a connection. You are also likely to start reaching for your drinks at the same time, or simultaneously sorting your hair.

Now let's go beyond body language and look at her behavior.

You see, while compulsively flirty girls are after your attention, they're also after the attention of every other man in the room. A woman who is genuinely into you, on the other hand, only needs you notice her and will focus all of her energies on making sure that happens.

There are various ways in which girls try to get your attention. She may ask you to dance. If you insist that she dances without you, she will spend the whole song glancing your way to check that you're watching. She may pull out a few extra sexy moves designed to get your heart thumping.

Try talking to another girl, whether a friend or the bartender. If the flirty girl suddenly appears at your side or you notice her watching intently, you can be sure that she's feeling jealous. She's trying her best to impress you tonight and won't want to share your attention with anyone.

On the other hand, if you catch her giggling and whispering with your guy friends, don't assume the worst. Girls know they need your mates' seal of approval so by doing her best to get them to like her, she's trying to ensure that you will, too.

And finally, if she leans in close and starts telling you her secrets, you know that you've scored. By creating an aura of intimacy between you she is allowing herself to relax - and nothing is more important than that if you're planning on taking her home.