We are all born beautiful.
We are all capable of giving, receiving and sharing pleasure, we are all
able to love and be loved.
Beautiful people are those comfortable with their bodies.
The best lovers are those who acknowledge themselves as sensual and sexual
beings. They’re concerned with what’s on the inside, as well as the outside.
But some people are more concerned with the outside, what they look like, and
subsequently tend to ignore what’s inside and become just a tad shallow.
If the motivation to change your body comes from the
perspective of not being enough, there’s a small problem. It will never be
enough. The other problem here is the
truth of change. To expect to look the same at 40 as we did at 25 is absurd.
The secret is we must be more comfortable with whom we are,
more secure, and must have an inner glow that only comes from a level of
self-acceptance and self-love is much better. What we must accept is that once
beautiful from inside; we will radiate the same beauty on the outside,
irrespective of age!
The more you allow yourself to pleasure and be pleasured,
the more aware of yourself, your physical and emotional being you become. This
naturally brings a greater sense of well-being, energy and vitality. Regardless
of what we look like externally. And we come to see that purely through feeling
good, that whatever our body looks like, we can have fun and excitement, peace
and passion.
And then the desire to change anything physically becomes
more realistic, easier and most importantly, the motivation to change becomes
different.
It’s because I like or even love myself more. And then
weight, for example disappears, or my eating changes naturally or exercise is
more fun or purposeful. It comes from inside and is not dependent on anybody or
anything else.
But the comfier I feel within my skin, the more sensual I
allow myself to be, the better about myself I will feel, the more my body will
come to a state of balance. And I will be happy!
